Surrender to Heal: Biblical Healing|Trauma Recovery| Nervous System Regulation| Faith| Mental Health

Welcome back to Surrender to Heal! I’m so honored you are joining me today. Do you constantly fear abandonment, overthink relationships, or feel emotionally anxious when someone pulls away? In this episode, we’re talking about anxious attachment, how trauma impacts the nervous system, and how God can begin healing your fear of rejection and emotional insecurity.
If you’ve ever struggled with people pleasing, needing reassurance, emotional overwhelm, or feeling unsafe in relationships, this episode will help you understand where these patterns come from and how to start healing attachment wounds with Jesus.
You’ll learn:
* What anxious attachment is
*Signs of anxious attachment in relationships
* How trauma impacts the nervous system  
* Why you fear abandonment
*Scripture for anxiety and emotional healing
* Practical ways to heal anxious attachment with God
* How to feel emotionally safe and secure in Christ
Healing is possible. You do not have to live in survival mode forever.
Scriptures Mentioned:
* Isaiah 26:3 * Deuteronomy 31:6
 
You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine!
XO, Melanie
 
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Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem
Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet
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Hi beautiful friend, welcome back! In this episode, we’re having a real and honest conversation about control—why we hold onto it, how it’s connected to our nervous system, and what it actually looks like to surrender it to God.
If you’ve been stuck in anxiety, overthinking, or constantly trying to manage every outcome… this episode will meet you right there. So many of us have learned to hold everything together as a way to feel safe. But the truth is, control often keeps our bodies in survival mode and blocks the deep healing God is inviting us into.
I break down how your nervous system plays a role in this—how your body holds onto fear, trauma, and the need to stay in control—and why surrendering isn’t just a spiritual concept, it’s also something your body has to learn. Healing isn’t just renewing your mind… it’s allowing your body to experience safety again in God’s presence.
We’ll talk about what it means to truly trust God in the healing process, especially when it feels uncomfortable, uncertain, or slow. And I’ll share practical ways to begin releasing control daily—through stillness, awareness, and inviting God into the places you’ve been gripping tightly.
You don’t have to carry everything. You don’t have to figure it all out. God is safe to trust—even here.
You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine!
XO,
Melanie
Save your seat for my FREE Workshop happening April 30th, From Survival Mode to Peace: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace
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Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem
Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more!
https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet
If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn
Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez
Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com
Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505
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Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts
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** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own.
*** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.

Hi beautiful friend, welcome back! In this episode, I’m opening up about where I’m at in this season—walking through pain, uncertainty, and learning to truly surrender my marriage to God.
This isn’t a step-by-step teaching. It’s real, honest, and vulnerable.
I share the struggle with control, the anxiety that comes with the unknown, and how God has been teaching me that surrender isn’t giving up—it’s trusting Him, even when I don’t understand.
If you’re in a season where you’re holding on tightly, overthinking, or feeling overwhelmed… this episode is for you.
You’re not alone. God is still working—even here.
Scripture: Proverbs 3:5
You are so loved!
XO,
Melanie
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Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem
Join my FREE Workshop happening April 17th, From Survival Mode to Peace. Register today and save your seat: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace
Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more!
https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet
If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn
Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez
Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com
Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505
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Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! If you’ve been listening to the podcast and thinking… “I know I need deeper healing… but I don’t know where to start” — this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, I’m walking you through the three different ways you can work with me, so you can confidently choose the level of support that fits where you are in your healing journey. Because here’s the truth… Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. And you don’t have to stay stuck trying to figure it out alone. I’ve created these spaces intentionally—for the woman who is ready to move out of survival mode, regulate her nervous system, renew her mind, and truly surrender her healing to God. Inside This Episode, We Talk About: • Why healing often feels confusing and overwhelming • The difference between self-paced healing vs. guided support • How to know what level of support your nervous system actually needs • The role of community, coaching, and structure in your healing journey • Why surrender—not striving—is the key to real transformation The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Join my FREE Workshop happening April 17th, From Survival Mode to Peace. Register today and save your seat: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.
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Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! Today we are talking all about the power of our words! Words have power—and they’re shaping your healing more than you realize. If you’ve been struggling with anxiety, overthinking, or negative self-talk, this episode will show you how your inner dialogue is impacting your nervous system, emotional health, and spiritual growth. We’re diving into what the Bible says about the power of your words and how to renew your mind, speak life, and align your thoughts with God’s truth so you can experience real peace. You’ll learn simple, practical ways to break free from toxic thought patterns and start calming your mind—God’s way. ✨ Ready to take the next step? Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://checkout.square.site/merchant/ML5J1P6X4YENF/checkout/KLEAGOQV4UR4E5WOFXX6GS5O?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebPXo__DVS9drl-TEQvgxhHp63DQbokaCNZO_9jI7nVEWR-1jfjPdPrQ-zTo_aem_yt60g8TSA2EgVRUUgLYZ-Q Enter the 200th Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: CLOSING MARCH 30! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.

Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! Have you ever had a day where your emotions felt overwhelming and suddenly your thoughts started spiraling into anxiety, fear, or discouragement? In this episode, we’re talking about something so many Christian women struggle with: letting emotions control our thoughts. While emotions are real and valid, they are not always reliable. When we allow feelings to determine what we believe, we can easily start believing lies instead of the truth of God’s Word. In this honest and encouraging conversation, I share a personal moment where I realized I had been letting my emotions lead my thinking — and how God reminded me of the power of taking every thought captive. You’ll learn how trauma and stress can make emotional thinking stronger, why the enemy often uses our emotions to plant lies, and how we can begin renewing our minds with truth instead. This episode will give you simple, practical ways to start your day grounded in truth so your emotions don’t take over your thoughts. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally drained lately, this conversation will encourage you and remind you that God’s truth is stronger than the lies in your mind. In This Episode We Talk About: • Why emotions are real but not always trustworthy • How trauma can intensify emotional thinking • The biblical meaning of taking thoughts captive • Recognizing lies the enemy plants in our mind • Practical steps to start your day with truth instead of fear • Learning to lead your emotions with God’s Word Scripture Mentioned 2 Corinthians 10:5 — “We take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” Philippians 4:13 — “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Romans 8:28 — “God works all things together for good.” John 8:32 — “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://checkout.square.site/merchant/ML5J1P6X4YENF/checkout/KLEAGOQV4UR4E5WOFXX6GS5O?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebPXo__DVS9drl-TEQvgxhHp63DQbokaCNZO_9jI7nVEWR-1jfjPdPrQ-zTo_aem_yt60g8TSA2EgVRUUgLYZ-Q Enter the 200th Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: CLOSING MARCH 30! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg Grab my NEW, FREE Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.

Welcome back to the podcast, sweet friend! Today’s episode is for the woman who feels confused and discouraged by her anxiety. You love God. You trust Him. You believe His promises. And yet—your heart races, your stomach tightens, your thoughts spiral, and peace feels fragile. You may have asked yourself, “If I really trusted God, wouldn’t I feel calm?” Or maybe you’ve felt guilt or shame for still struggling with anxiety. If that’s you, I want to say this gently and clearly right now: Your anxiety is not proof of weak faith. Today we’re going to talk about why anxiety can exist alongside genuine trust in God, what’s actually happening in your body, and how God invites you into peace without pressure. 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Enter the 200 Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg Grab my NEW, FREE Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.

In this episode of Surrender to Heal, we talk about Negative Self Talk and how it connects to faith-based healing, nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and trusting God. For most of us, the view we have of ourselves, was shaped in childhood and continued to be molded through all of our life experiences. If you’re a Christian woman struggling with negative self talk or negative views of yourself, this episode will help you understand how God sees you and begin healing through surrender, safety, and God’s truth. I hope this episode blesses you! If you would be so kind and leave a written review on Apple Podcast, that would mean the world to me! 🤍 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Surrender to Heal Academy, a 12-week faith-based healing experience for Christian women learning to regulate their nervous system, heal trauma, and walk in true surrender with God. APPLY NOW ⬇️ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Enter the 200 Episode/ 5 Year GIVEAWAY HERE: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdZ4fBb5uoLFD1vQoHtCGiGtvpFfy71EqNd7sOhEZz6eQXCwA/viewform?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPNDM3NjI2MzE2OTczNzg4AAEebK_9PQTzCqyD1Zxw5Vxy65Kt7t6jaFReOokJk655Dv6DhnR7SQQQD5y1BRk_aem_LfwjgwcPZ3PZuJ8vIDEMAg Grab my NEW, FREE Nervous System Reset Guide: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.

Hi Beautiful friend! Welcome back to the podcast. Today we’re talking about something so many Christian women silently struggle with—and often feel ashamed about. You know the truth. You know what Scripture says. You know God is good. But your thoughts feel loud. Negative. Spiraling. Critical. Fear-based. And sometimes you wonder, “Why can’t I think differently when I know better?” If that question has ever crossed your mind, I want you to take a deep breath with me right now. Because this episode is not about trying harder to think positive. It’s about understanding why trauma makes renewing your mind feel so difficult—and how God gently restores your thoughts when safety comes first. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to hang out with me! I hope this episode blessed you! If it did, please consider sharing it with a friend and leaving a review on Apple podcasts! Your reviews help other women, just like you, to find the show and get the support they need. I appreciate your reviews so much! If you have been blessed by the podcast, please consider supporting my ministry by buying me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Surrender to Heal Is now a monthly membership! Join now for a low monthly cost (no long term commitments- cancel anytime). We also have 3, 6, and 12 month pay in full options available! Learn more and grab your founding member pricing here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewform Book a call with me here to see if it’s a good fit: https://calendly.com/christianwomenhealingtrauma/discovery-call Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.

Hi Beautiful friend!Have you ever wondered why you know the truth, but your body still feels anxious? Why you trust God, but panic still shows up?
Your nervous system has two main modes: safety and survival. Trauma teaches your body that danger is always nearby—even when it’s not!
This is why you may feel on edge, exhausted, emotionally numb, or overwhelmed. It’s not because you’re failing. It’s because your body hasn’t learned safety yet. In this episode we are talking all about this!2 Timothy 1:7 says God did not give us a spirit of fear—but fear can still live in the nervous system until it’s gently healed.Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to hang out with me! I hope this episode blessed you! 
 
If it did, please consider sharing it with a friend and leaving a review on Apple podcasts! Your reviews help other women, just like you, to find the show and get the support they need! I appreciate your reviews so much. 
If you have been blessed by the podcast, please consider supporting my ministry by buying me a coffee: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxnSurrender to Heal Academy is launching soon—and enrollment will be limited! If you’re ready to stop living in survival mode, heal at the root, and walk in emotional, spiritual, and physical restoration with God, this is your next step!
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Apply now:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe0usSzn7jsn3gzyVoEPhtxdwUy0LSDBkn1lhE5yK3GEcFFqw/viewformBook a call with me here to see if it’s a good fit: https://calendly.com/christianwomenhealingtrauma/discovery-callGrab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavezEmail me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.comCome join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505Join our NEW Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfrFollow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/christian_women_healing?igsh=MXZodWMyNW42azlwdQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrFollow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalpromptsGrab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d* Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own.*** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.